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Unlocking Home Sale Success: The Power of Staging Psychology

I took a continuing ed course taught by Birgit Anich of BA Staging and Interiors last week. I have taken staging classes before, but I didn’t realize that such a strong positive psychological impact can be achieved when applying staging strategy and design techniques.

The goal of staging is to merchandise a property to position it most competitively for sale by eliciting strong positive emotion from those who enter the space.

When you walk into a home, you may feel nothing. You might even feel an aversion. Or your heart may skip a beat, and you experience a “chemistry”, a feeling of excitement, or joy.

We all make decisions based on emotion. We then back up our emotions with fact. Therefore, as a homeowner, when you prepare your house for sale, ensuring your buyers experience a “wow” as soon as they arrive and walk in should be part of your investment in achieving your top dollar sale.


When you put your house on the market, you want buyers to feel the love when they walk in.

Here are four guiding concepts:

  1. Everything has a place and a purpose! If it doesn’t, take it out.
  2. Curb appeal is key. This is the first impression. Every home needs a wow-factor, so incorporate something to evoke a positive emotion even before entering the home.
  3. Everything the buyer sees tells a story, so make it the story you want to tell. For example, if closets are jam-packed, it tells the buyer there might not be enough storage. Closets should ideally be 70% full and arranged by color.
  4. Create lifestyle moments. Create the idea of an “aspirational lifestyle”. An example of this is the big soaking tub. Most people never use them, but they love the idea of it when they see it! An alternative can be to have a big coffee table book open to a page showing a luxurious vacation spot or collectible cars.

What are some of the strategies?

  • Feature the features. Guide the eye toward what you want to showcase. Any custom elements should be featured such as a new kitchen. All assets should be featured, such as great views, fireplaces, and vaulted ceilings.
  • Make sure there’s no “wasted space”. Clearly define the use of all space and give it a purpose. Be sure to separate adult space from kids’ space.
  • Minimalize. Use a “less is more” approach.
  • Create “memory points”. For example, after seeing four homes, someone might say, “Yes, I remember that house. It’s the one with the pink cushions!”
  • Out with the old, in with the new. Refresh items and elements that give a dated or tired impression. For example, swapping out dated light fixtures can make a huge difference in the impression it makes!
  • Appeal to the senses. Clean and fresh is key. There is actually a special type of light bulb that can eliminate stubborn odors, such as from pets. Don’t over-do-it with strong scents from candles or oils. Lighting is important too. Be sure to avoid using bulbs with cool lighting.

Texture, color, placement, materials, metals, mirrors, vignettes, and ‘signs of life’ are just a few elements Birgit employs for her strategy. Here are some tricks of the trade!

  • Proper lighting wattage and color is important. Use warm lighting with 2700-3000 Kelvin in the living room. A bit cooler lighting in the kitchen is okay, 3000+ Kelvin.
  • Furniture placement is important. The heaviest piece of furniture should be on the wall opposite the entrance to the room. Make sure there is at least three feet clearance to walk around furniture, especially tables, but no more than four feet.
  • Use big area rugs to anchor furniture in a room and give it a connected, cohesive, luxurious look. For luxury spaces, have a big rug with all furnishings set completely on it. For more informal spaces, use a big rug with furnishings off-set or extending off the edges.
  • Coordinate colors.
  • Balance rooms with symmetry.
  • Group accessories in sets of three and five (odd numbers).
  • Repeat design themes throughout the home.
  • Use mirrors as a design element to reflect light, reflect pretty views opposite them, and let the buyers see themselves in the space!
  • Incorporate “signs of life“, like plants to add a warmth and an organic component to the space.
  • Add pops of color to make space memorable and help guide the focus to where you want it.
  • Set accessories on angles so they are not too predictable looking.
  • Create “special moments“. Use vignettes to suggest a moment in time and create a lifestyle feel. For example, you can display a decorative board game on a coffee table and have a couple of the pieces out in play as though people were just playing.
  • Mix metals. For example use a black metal with a gold metal to add interest and variation.
  • Add “plush” (textures). For example, add fur seat cushions or open a lively book to a specific page and put it on a desk or coffee table.
  • Use lighting to center the space.
  • In a gourmet kitchen, use lifestyle accessories.
  • In bedrooms, neutralize bedding with whites for a fresh clean impression.
  • Mix patterns and solids.
  • Use timeless glass.

I bet you can’t wait to try a few of these ideas in your own home! Here are some pictures to get the juices flowing. But if you are thinking about making a move and feel overwhelmed by everything you have do, don’t worry, there is ample help to guide the process and get you there. In fact, when it comes to repairs and staging, I even have a program that will take care of everything for you at no out of pocket cost until you close!

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Rooms with A View and Near and Far Aid: Ways to Give Back

As the year comes to a close and the holidays approach, it feels more important than ever to give back and support those less fortunate.

This November began with attending Rooms with a View in Southport in which professional and up and coming designers create stunning mini-rooms for visitors to view. Many of the furnishings are available for purchase by area merchants. Ticket proceeds help to fund 18 local and regional charities for a wide array of community needs.


Near and Far Aid raises funds to support strong communities and help prevent poverty and homelessness in Fairfield County. The largest fundraising event is the upcoming Spring Gala at Mitchells in Westport on April 28, 2023. The kick-off meeting for volunteers began in November with a festive start hosted at The Post at 1799 Post Road in Westport.

If you would like to find out how to get involved with one of these organizations or you would like to talk about your moving plans in the coming year, reach out below!

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Staging: The Magic You May Be Looking For!

Does anyone really have “vision”?

Let’s face it, most of us do not have “vision” when it comes to imaging another home as our own. As a home buyer, you appreciate seeing a potential home that’s gets you excited and makes your heart pound, right?

As a home seller you want to put your best foot forward to help your buyers view your house at the absolute top value you feel it’s worth, right?

It’s emotional!

I can list the statistics from the National Association of Realtors and other organizations that have documented the value of home staging because it has resulted in homes selling for the highest possible price in the least amount of time. I know you’ve seen the data. But what is it about staging that makes the difference? It’s emotional! And people make real decisions based on emotion. (There are studies documenting this point as well.)

When you approach the house and when you walk in, you feel an instant WOW! The feeling is fresh, clean, light and bright. Something about the space draws you in. You notice the fabulous views, elegant fireplace, perfect lighting, spacious rooms, and seamless flow! You are not distracted by personal photos and belongings, evidence of pets, extreme wall colors, oppressive and excessive furnishings or other obstructions. You simply feel an easy flow and a fabulous vibe, maybe even some passion!

Browse the photos above, and see how you feel!

Here’s what one of my clients had to say,

The suggestion of “staging” was something I hadn’t thought of, but after being introduced to the idea, I went with it and was amazed by the change it brought to my home. It was magnificent!!!

Browse through some of the before and after photos by clicking the image above, and see how you feel!

Reach out to me below with comments or questions about your plans. Want a quick estimate of your home’s value in the current market? Click here.

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Sold Over Ask in Under a Month

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The final result was better than she had ever imagined, but it took some serious soul searching, intense preparation, and full collaboration with her agent.

For years after she retired from her career as a flight attendant, Linda wanted to be with her friends who purchased homes in Florida and frequently traveled together from there. However, the responsibility of being the sole caretaker of her now 97-year old mom, Dolly required her to stay-put. Her family lived in upstate New York where her mother also owned a home. So the interim plan was to move back with Dolly to her New York house where her family could help with her care.


Preparation started by meeting with her agent to create a plan, and then it was time to start packing up her house.

Once she decided to sell, the job of emptying the home she had lived in since 1995 began. There are services to help a homeowner clear out their house quickly and easily, but Linda (Linda L, not me!) wanted to dig into this process herself.

William Raveis offers Raveis Refresh, a service that removes the homeowner’s burden of preparing the home for sale, and there’s no out of pocket expense to the seller until the closing.

But Linda felt the need to go through everything in the house and give away as much as she could. She accomplished this the old fashioned way, through networking and many trips to Goodwill! I believe that this process was also important for Linda because it was part of the emotional transition. It was not easy to leave the neighborhood she loved for so many years.

Part of our plan was to meet with a stager and determine the strategy for how to present the house to get the most money out of it.

We were all in agreement that the darkish yellow walls did not support the beachy vibe we wanted to go for in the beach area. Even the white ceilings needed refreshing after so many years since being painted. Several light fixtures from another era needed to be replaced and the exterior needed some touching up as part of the freshness strategy. And because Linda planned to get rid of almost everything in the house, the rooms needed furnishing. It was hard, even for us, to visualize the transformation that was soon to take place.

As Linda emptied the house, she gained momentum.

Linda called contractors to have deferred maintenance items attended to and had anything that was broken fixed. Gradually, she got rid of everything and made some key improvements like replacing the wood deck with new maintenance-free composite, installing some new appliances in the kitchen, and swapping out several light fixtures.

Fresh paint in the right shade yields the highest ROI. Staging creates the magic.

Then the painting began, and as the rooms became white, the natural light was reflected and uncovered a beautiful etherial feel that was dormant before. Even the basement got a paint refresh! With the home now a glow, it was time for the stagers to add the final magic. In one afternoon, they had the living room, dining room, study, and two bedrooms beautifully furnished, and the whole house accessorized. Linda’s house went from cluttered, dim, and tired, to light, bright, and magazine worthy! When she returned after leaving the house to the stagers, she could not believe it was the same house! She had the same reaction as the buyers who came to see it! Excitement!

The plan, effort, and collaboration paid off!

The house went on the market on a Thursday morning in time for the broker tour. Many agents came through with positive feedback. A number of agent showings took place from Thursday through the weekend. The showings in combination with a Saturday and Sunday open house brought 56 people through in four days! Multiple offers were received above the asking price, and by Monday, the new homeowner was on board!

If you would like to discuss your dream of the home that matches your needs and lifestyle, reach out to me below. If you’re curious what your home is worth in this market and would like an instant estimate, click here. Not ready yet? Keep an eye on the market with the monthly WHAT SOLD reports and Weekly Updates on the blog!

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